If you have thoughts, mental patterns or feeling that you would like to change, this post is for you. If “something” is blocking you from doing the things you want in life, than this post is for you. If you ever wondered why smart people do stupid things, than this post is for you.
This post is for anyone who has struggled with either extreme introversion or extroversion and is looking for some tips on overcoming the challenges that are a part of their personality, especially with regards to dating.
If you wish that you had a mentor, someone to help you become a better man or women than this post is for you.
No one exists in a vacuum. We live as part of a greater organism that we call society. We are shaped and molded by others, even at times against our will. By choose who influences us we gain positive power over our lives.
Those who we allow into our lives will change us, for better or for worse. They teach us things that we can not learn in books or with self study. We learn of other ways of being and acting. They look into us and see who we truly are.
The basic idea of sexual market value is generally easy to comprehend but if you or a loved one has a chronic condition of some kind, there may be a hurdle in the way of acceptance.
Let’s take the example of an autoimmune condition that one develops in childhood. The person with this condition knows they did not do anything to bring this on themselves. They might be offended at the idea that their sexual market value has been lowered through no fault of their own.
Nevertheless, reality must be dealt with. In the case of an autoimmune condition, you have something that has a higher genetic susceptibility to be passed down to your offspring and no one would argue this is a positive thing. Also, you may have higher associated medical costs and perhaps drains on your energy, appearance, capabilities, and vibrancy. Your mood may be affected, too.
Fascinating Womanhood offers women the keys to true femininity and female empowerment. Fascinating Womanhood is an international femininity movement and guide to help women make their marriage into a lifelong love affair based on the timeless principles in the bestselling book written by Helen B. Andelin.
If you feel unlucky in love or would like to improve your chances of finding your ideal partner then this post is for you.
What role do you believe luck or chance plays in your love life?
How much control over your world do you think you have?
Can you change the chances of getting positive or negative outcomes in your life?
Can you manipulate luck?
We are what we do habitually. Our habits are largely the result of our schedule. If our schedule is chaotic or unplanned then we will live a life of chaos, lacking in direction. Therefore, to have an orderly life that takes us where we want to go we need to pay special attention to our schedule.
The good news is that building a schedule has never been easier. Most of us have a smartphone with built in calendar functions. If you still live in the stone age you can buy a paper appointment book for very little money. The key is to choose a simple solution that will travel with you.
In addition, your schedule needs to support your goals and help you to orientate your life. It needs to put important things first. I should encourage the development of good habits and patterns of living. This post will offer a path to developing such a schedule.
How Much Agency Do You Have?
Does your agency have limits?
Do you know the limits of your agency?
How can we deal with limits to our agency?
If these questions appeal to you then this post is going to be very interesting.
If you ever wondered how to answer personal questions while on a date this post is for you.
Healthy, strong relationships are built on a foundation of truth. Lies, manipulation and distraction destroy trust and prevent the possibility of building a happy future. Yet, it's not prudent to promiscuously share details about yourself with strangers. How can you draw the line? What is an acceptable level of sharing for various stages of a relationship?
Do women have agency?
The question is an important one, especially since men started to experiment with allowing women the privilege of participating in the management of the commons. By that I mean we let them vote.
Modern society tends to give women all the privileges that come with having agency without expecting them to actually demonstrate agency in their lives. This is very destructive and confusing to women. It's not a reasonable approach and the long term effects are destroying western culture and societies.
For the sake of saving our future we need to have a cohesive and logical approach to questions regarding women and agency. This post will look at the question in what I think is a very straightforward and simple manner.
If you want to get better at talking to women very quickly, then read this post.
If you want to develop a romantic relationship you need to get good at talking to women. But remember these points.
If you experience anxiety about dating and marriage than this post is for you.
Even if you do not score high on the neuroticism scale this post will help you understand how to date someone who does.
Neuroticism is one of the Big Five higher-order personality traits in the study of psychology. People who score high on neuroticism are more likely than average to experience so called negative emotions such as anxiety, worry, fear, anger, frustration, envy, jealousy, guilt, depressed mood, and loneliness. They are generally change and risk averse.
Thanks to Ragnar, Jake, Matt and Doc for inviting me to their show. Below you can find the links to specific areas within the conversation.
Lacey Lynn and Noah J Revoy have a great chat about the SMV4K.com project.
Cheat sheet to help you keep your relationship strong and healthy.
Traditional women need romantic commitment. Their peak SMV window, the time that they are capable of attracting the best quality mate is very small. The fear of wasting that time is very real.
In this video I speak with Rachel who is dating a man she likes very much. She feels conflicted about meeting new men while she is developing the first stages of a potentially permanent relationship. The internal conflict exists because her favorite sutor has not yet proposed an explicit commitment of exclusive dating.
This interview includes great tips for men to help them get the highest SMV women they can attain.
Self Improvement, dating and marriage is serious business, but sometimes we take it too seriously.
It's also supposed to be fun. It should be enjoyable. If you are finding the challenge of meeting new people, or improving your SMV to be overwhelming, maybe the problem is that you are not having fun doing it.
If you are a man or woman who is interested in or confused about the subject of feminine assertiveness this message is for you.
We will be covering the subject of assertiveness for women in three parts. This will enable us to go deeper into the subject and avoid overwhelming the reader.
In an ideal world we would have a very well organized sexual market consisting of social systems that promote K-selected behaviour and the formation of stable marriages. We don't live in the ideal, so we must work with what we have. Failure is not an option.
Whatever dating and courtship strategies that we use must take into account the lack of a structured sexual marketplace. We will need to build our own structure and demonstrate far more autonomy than was previously required. That can be exhausting if we don't have a good strategy to facilitate our search.